Kenyan socialite Huddah Monroe has voiced her adamant stance against cohabiting with black men, citing a need for them to evolve in character.
She emphasized the importance of prioritizing personal well-being over enduring abusive relationships.
Her remarks were sparked by a distressing video allegedly depicting P Diddy’s physical altercation with his former partner.
Expressing her dismay, she lamented what she perceives as a pervasive issue among black men, citing the incident as representative of a larger pattern.
Huddah underscored her resolve to steer clear of such relationships, advocating for a shift in societal norms to empower the next generation of black men. She urged women to focus on their individual journeys, suggesting that single motherhood is preferable to being trapped in a cycle of domestic violence.
This outspoken stance is not new for Huddah, who has previously criticized black men for their perceived lack of success.
She attributes this to a tendency to feel threatened by successful and ambitious women, rather than seeing them as potential partners for growth.
According to Huddah, this insecurity leads to detrimental choices, with men failing to recognize the value of investing in a strong and capable partner.
She suggests that this mindset ultimately leads to financial instability, as men opt for companionship over compatibility in financial matters.
In her view, the root of this problem lies in the mismatch between ambition levels in relationships, with men choosing partners who lack the drive to generate wealth sustainably.
She analogizes this to marrying someone who only consumes resources without contributing to their replenishment.
” These men marry a bum that only eats but can’t fish.”
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